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Making Decisions From Your Higher Brain


When you make a decision from your higher brain, it is VERY normal for your lower brain to panic and
offer you lots of concerning thoughts filled with worry and self doubt. 

That's your lower brain's job.

When this happens we often question our decision, like "oh no, if I'm so worried about it maybe it wasn't
a good decision." But it does not serve us to make decisions from our lower brain or to change decisions
when our lower brain panics. 

So if you feel like you made the decision from your higher brain, then you can feel confident in sticking
with that decision and moving forward with it even when your lower brain offers you a lot of worrisome
thoughts. 

Just remind yourself that it's your lower brain doing that, nothing has gone wrong, it's right on track and
so are you, the decision you've made is a good one. These thoughts are all available to you.

Listen to the protests from your lower brain, thank it for doing its job, then proceed with the plan you
know you've made from your higher brain.

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